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I’ve had it hard in the category of real best-friend in the past years. I moved, and lost my best friend who was truely my best friend. I lost contact with her. I now live in a different state, and love the place that I live, though it is hard to find a friend who really understands you, and actually sticks by your side, and is honest, and cares about how you feel. I had made 2 so-called best friends last year and they tunred against me. One of them was pulling my other friend apart from me (the one who didn’t really care about wishing me a happy birthday or coming to my birthday party), and my other friend wasn’t even one of my real friends. I stopped being friends with them, and I didn’t want to keep a grudge-type-of-wall, so I wished them a great summer on the last day of school. Don’t get me wrong, I have several good friends, but they are good friends, not ones who would really understand me. I’m the simple type of girl; I’m from Iran and I love Iran so much, it’s indescribable and I definately follow my culture, but some people, I think, are prejudice. I hate that. The news trashes the American publics’ minds all the time about Iran. But back to the topic, I know I’m the most beautiful girl, and I am serious about getting in trouble that so many high-schoolers get into. How can I find a friend that will stick by my side, party with me, laugh with me, cry with me, and be a real best-friend?
I will stop after this last question, well more a set of statements to which you can say (a) dude get over her (b) wait n’ see. she may like you (c) you’re playing with fire. could go 50/50.
btw, it’s long, so grab some popcorn. =P
On Tuesday, I pick her up from the airport, after getting my butt out of bed at 6am and fighting through traffic. She lands, texts and calls, hug her at the gate, go to breakfast, talk, linger around, go to her apt. linger around….she mentions her roommates are going to a concert….I’m about to reply…then her roommate walks in, and she’s just talking to her. leave for work.
we’re texting alot….but on Thursday, after I ask / kinda push her to walk back to the parking lot with me, she says, “dont’ wanna. sorry dude. have a nice night.”
the next day, i text her and ask what’s wrong, she responds with, “Nothing. I didn’t want to meet up with you but you kept pushing it. Hanging out with you is stressful and often uncomfortable - let me be!”
to which i responded….
“I’m laughing now: why do i make you stressed? Shall I bring some stress balls or should we go to a massage parlor?”
her: “Leave me alone.”
and i left it at that.
a few months ago, we met at an art museum. she seemed impressed. i seemed impressed. touch on a shoulder, gave me her number, asked me to a concert….but i couldn’t go since work called. invited her to surfing, she said yes, but i canceled due to weather.
of course, she always asked me to go to lunch with her co-workers, but i had my own work.
somewhere there, i finally say, “Sunday. no more rainchecks,” and she says, “ok, but i get to choose where.” It’s a house party. we all have fun. she takes some nice pictures of me.
Funny, neither of us have facebooked each other. we just send pictures via e-mail.
Anyway, near the end of the party, she mentions her long distance boyfriend. I hear it, and am a little bit mixed-bag-of-negative feelings, since I had been there, done that, didn’t want to be hurt again…so I said, “Well, I’m done here” and walked out. She gave me a parting gift, but I felt a bit silly the next day and apologized….although she didn’t accept the coffee invite.
ayway, now the story is WAY too complicated even for me to tell it. i’m sick, sick, sick of it. twirling around in my mind, wasting my time,
i guess deep down, maybe i’m a sick puppy who likes the idea of being in love, and not actually love.
so now you can say (a) dude get over her (b) wait n’ see. she may like you (c) you’re playing with fire. could go 50/50. (d) haven’t you learned already!??! (e) dumbass.
don’t worry about being mean. i want the the truth!
or ask a “few good men” might say,
“you can’t handle the truth!”
oh tom cruise….help me.

I think my freind likes my guy and i think he kina likes her but i dont know wat to do she talks to him all the time and she will flert with him using one of thous fake laughs i want her to back off but i dont want to tell her that wat should i do????????

YOu know the ones that are like…
friends will help you when you fall
best friends will laugh and trip you again
friends will bail you out of jail
best friends will sit beside you saying MAN WE MESSED UP!
I have no friends. Ihave no social life scince i started in this new school in 7th grade,no im in 8th and i stll have no friends. yes i still talk to people that sit around me sometimes and in one class i do have my laughs and sometime i am the center of attention (only when im hyper n cus its when i help in da office n there r only 3 more kids there.) But im shy n im 13 years old 6ft tall (yes wow ikno) i dont have the highest selfestem n im not blind either ( i kno im not deformed.) How can i make some friends when i go to high school? i was thinking about learning to skateboard over the summer n maybe make somefriends in highschool?
Plus i hav another minor question. Me and my friend (11 cus she lives in the aprtment rite in frunt of me) resently fought because we both got new puppies n my puppy is about a month younger than her and is playing with her dog and winning n then she flips out when they play becus she thinks that my dog is like a killer dog or something anyways her and i fought cus she dosent lie my dog n she sed this 2 me n i was about to pimp slap her ass. Now she hasent talked to me for like a week! should i go to her house n try 2 act like nothing happend or walk away with my n my dogs honor????
p.s sorry for the horrible spelling